Is Your Smart Home Spying on You?
(And How to Stop It)

A Simple Guide for Anyone Who's Ever Wondered: "Is Alexa Really Listening?"

Updated Feb 2026

Remember when a "bug" in your home meant you needed an exterminator? Now it might mean your doorbell camera is recording every conversation on your front porch and sending it to a stranger's computer halfway across the country.

If that makes you uncomfortable, you're not alone. And you're not being paranoid.

The Problem Nobody Talks About

You bought that Ring doorbell to see who's at the door. Your kids set up Alexa so you could ask for the weather. The smart TV came with the house, or seemed like a good deal at Costco.

But here's what the salespeople don't mention:

These devices are like having guests in your home who never leave—and never stop taking notes.

Think of it this way: If a stranger knocked on your door and said, "I'd like to stand in your living room 24/7, record everything you say, take photos of everyone who visits, and send all that information back to my boss"... you'd slam the door in their face.

Yet that's exactly what many smart home devices do. Every. Single. Day.

The "I Didn't Know That!" Moment

Here are three things happening in homes right now—maybe even yours:

1. Amazon Sidewalk is Sharing Your Wi-Fi

If you have an Alexa, there's a feature called "Sidewalk" that's probably turned ON right now. It lets your neighbors' devices piggyback on your internet connection. Amazon turned this on automatically for millions of people without asking.
Think of it like leaving your garden hose running in the front yard with a sign that says "Free Water - Help Yourself."

2. Your Ring Doorbell Has Been Hacked Before

In 2019, hackers broke into Ring cameras and talked to children through the speakers. They could see everything. They knew when families were home and when they weren't. Why? Because most people never changed the default password or turned on basic security.

3. Your Smart TV is Watching You Watch TV

That sleek TV tracks every show you watch, every channel you flip to, every movie you pause. Then it sells that information to advertisers. Some models even have cameras and microphones.

The Good News: You Can Fix This in 5 Minutes

You don't need to throw your Alexa in the trash or go live in a cabin. You just need to know which buttons to push.

That's why we created this Virtual Spy Privacy Audit.

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Real Questions from Real People

"Will this break my devices?"
Nope. We're not asking you to delete anything or disconnect anything permanently. We're just turning off the features that are like leaving your windows open while you're on vacation.

"My son set this stuff up. Won't he be mad if I change things?"
Your son (or daughter, or grandson) will probably be RELIEVED. Most tech-savvy people are horrified when they learn their parents' devices are set to "share everything with everyone." They just haven't had time to fix it.


If this helped you, please share it with a friend. Chances are, they have an Alexa or a Ring doorbell too. Let's stop making it easy for strangers to peek through our digital windows.

Edited by Olly Farmer